:fest30:Hallelujah! and Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. :fing32: to all of you who kept answering my posts.
I was able to reach the tangs (didn't even know they had a name) get the wires out, re-bend the tangs out - just a little, put them back into the connector at the right locations.
Instead of blindly putting it all back together and trying the key. I knew how to test it in advance, and was not the least surprised that when i did turn the key everything operated as it should.
My lil Red 8183KMT is back on line. :Tractor2: couldn't find a red one on there.
Specific thanks to Don, Ron, Sheldon, thing, and wjohn who each posted some answer that turned on a new lightbulb for me. There were probably others. And an extra shout out

raying: to Richard who contributed alot not only with his knowledge but especially the images he put up. A picture is worth a 1000 words they say - I say a picture is at least worth a 5-prong connector on the back of my ignition switch. Without those images of what was in there i might have destroyed mine pushing something in there to get the "tangs"!!!
I will never be intimidated about trouble shooting the electrical system on any of my tractors again after this experience.
Now i got to get my chains on. My plow attached and figure out how to get weight on the back of my tractor w/o spending much. All things i have never done before. Then let it snow!