I don't know the exact size but I will look tonight on a spare starter if I have a chance. I am 95% sure it is std, everything else on the Onan is std units. The starter being sourced from Mitsubishi means there is a small chance its metric and I just can't remember off the top of my head.
What issues are you having with the solenoid? Working on a P series starter without pulling the engine is a tall task!! I tired working on starters in frame and finally said never again. :ROF