Dansmail,
Your problem is not so much with the clutch as it is with understanding the nature of the L100.
First of all, the L100 (as you know) has a 5 speed gear driven transmission. That's a positive gear to gear engagement. There is no hydro fluid pumping around to take up the slack when you let the clutch out. It may make starting out slowly a little difficult, but that manual transmission is what makes the L100 so durable and tough. No other (except for the L100's brother, the D100) John Deere lawn tractor made today has a manual transmission.
Secondly, the L100 is a relative light machine with low gear ratios so it takes off when you let out on the clutch.
Thirdly, you are probably running the machine at Wide-Open-Throttle when you let out on the clutch.
Now as an analogy, say you were in a Corvette with a manual transmission and a high ratio rear end, you have the engine screaming a WOT, put it in gear and let out on the clutch and see what happens. Maybe a wheelie but definately a wild ride.
You need to let out the clutch slowly, at least until the machine starts to roll. If you can't teach yourself to do that then reduce the throttle to about half, maybe even with the mower engaged, before you let out on the clutch. This will help you understand how the machine can take off slowly. Then immediately move to WOT. The air cooled engine in the L100 is made to run at WOT.
Dennis