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Your story sounds similar to ours. Except we lived in a middle-class neighborhood to begin with in Northern IL. And as the years went on, it declined into a lower middle-class neighborhood, and with it came crime and a different demographic than we had ever had there before. The year before we moved, we had a car full of criminals who had just robbed a convenience store about a mile and a half away, run from the police in a high-speed chase, and end up in our front yard, because we were the last house on a dead-end street, and they didn't know where they were fleeing to. They had actually shot the store clerk before taking off. They pulled into our front yard, and there was nowhere for them to drive, so they bailed out of the car and took off on foot. Our front yard was overrun by city and county police as well as SWAT.I'm now 70, I was born and lived entire life within a 3 mile radius, until 2021 when my wife and I decided we no longer fit there. The "well off suburbia" I mentioned started off as a mostly rural area when I was a kid. Football and baseball fields were anywhere in the "neighborhood" as long as someone had a push mower that was running and could knock down the field grass for a game. Lots were measured in acres not square feet in those days. Every kid within a mile came and your mitt was always on the handlebars. Nobody bothered it either. Most days were spent outdoors in the woods or riding everywhere. We played and climbed in almost every new house built within a mile! And the builder's "burn piles" provide ample pieces for all of us to build forts and treehouses.
Over the decades subdivided into 1/2 ever 1/4 acre "lots" the rolling hills and woods attracted the once high paid auto company crowd to build ranch homes. As an adult, we built our first 1,008 house too on a tiny little lot. Raised 4 kids there then moved to a 1 acre ranch of about 1,400 sf where we lived for 34 years until 2021. In that time my great old neighborhood of mature forested, rolling hills, with 1950s ranches and 2 story homes, began to attract remodelers. Soon that became buy and tear down "investors". First thing they do is demolish great homes in perfect shape, then down come all trees...literally. Then up go white brick mansions that are $1 - $3 million places on acre lots. It is very disheartening to see this transition over the many years. Heck we used to have summer hay rides around our neighborhood for the kids, tractors and all. I drove my X500 down to the neighbor's to help him with some snow banks left by the county plow. Got ran off the road by a neighbor on the cell phone who then gave me the "one" salute. Suddenly you and your home, while in perfect repair, is the "odd one out". Few of the old neighbors left, and the new ones are never home, and when you do see them, they are down right rude even though they live across the street. The guy who bought the neighbor's house in 2020 stopped in his $70k SUV to say, "hey I'm John your new neighbor, when can we chat about your trees?" What?. He wanted me to cut my back yard trees down as he was planning on a pool in his back yard and the leaves could pose a problem for him. Stunned, I was speechless. NO KIDDING, NO EMBELLISHMENT. Don't get started on their kids, their sports cars and parties. Parking? My front ditch became barren ground from the cars parked there. Gave up on reseeding 2 years before we left.
Decided this is not the way we were brought up or wanted to live, this was not what it once was and that was NOT good. Off we went looking for a year and a half. Back to the country we used to know at the old place. Hopefully, now being almost surrounded by a few thousand acres of State land will keep encroaching "civilization" at bay. In this context, I use the term "civilization" sarcastically. Rude, and obnoxious is a more accurate description.
See what I mean by "another story"? I'm quite sure that we are not the only ones "forced out" of what used to be a great area. Out of politeness, we call it "well off suburbia". I'm sure there are some great folks there, but they are truly a tiny minority.
We were paying a little over 8K a year in property taxes for just shy of 1 acre with an 1,800 sq.ft. very average home. When we "escaped" after retiring (the wife is retired, and I'm "mostly" retired) we bought our 40 acres, with about 2/3 of it wooded, and with a 3,000 sq.ft. log home on it, and now pay just shy of 4K in property taxes. They were 2K last year when we moved in, but we've since been reappraised. So, we're still paying less than half of what we were in IL and have a lot more to show for it.
Our quality of life has drastically improved as well. The wife and I couldn't be happier! There are far fewer people here, and the ones that are here are just completely different (in a much better way) than we're used to. We can take our side by side anywhere we want to up here. We can even ride into town to the store in it if we want to. We can snowmobile from our front door. I can shoot off of my back deck. The list goes on and on. We don't hear those idiot kids driving around with their car stereos booming so loud that you can hear the body panels shaking from the bass. Just cutting trees on my own property is therapeutic and good exercise for me. I love it. We often refer to it as "Mayberry"!
I think the whole "urban sprawl" thing is ruining our country. Not necessarily the urban sprawl itself, but the things that go along with it. I'm not going to judge how others live their lives, because how we live our lives, some people would consider "primitive" or "absurd", but it works for us, and we love it. But living in one of those 1M+ homes on a less than one acre lot with no vegetation around me wouldn't be considered "moving up" to us at all. Quite the opposite. We believe that our lives are more conducive to family values. But whatever, it works for us.