After work, and having dropped off a piston and Sealed Powers machining instructions they included w the pistons, at the machine shop, I started working on the trailer plug. It partially works, parking lights and right turn/stop works, left turn/stop, main power wire (to charge trailer brakes) doesn't, and I still have to test the integrated trailer brake setup to see if it's working.
From the wiring diagram, it's a straight run from the fuse box to the rear connector, and there's power at the fuse box, and none at the connector, so I'll look for obvious damage around the fuse box and at the rear, but I'll probably wind up just running new wire to the back, as it is a high-effort for low reward to untape and examine the main bundle of wires running the length of hte truck looking for a break that may not even be visible (as in, the wire is broken under the insulation).
Same with the main power wire, except the jcase fuse for it was also blown (which, btw, also sucks, why couldn't they use mini or even full size blade fuses, you can test that it's getting power to each side, and they seem to be way more commonly available and cheaper, and WAY easier to remove w/o busting them). Tried putting power directly to the post, and didn't get anything out back, so it's the same deal.
Moved on to seeing how the ambient light circuit works, so I can add a switch to disable it, so the lights go off when I pull up in the driveway at night. The bcm connection is on the X2 connector, pin 11, white wire (somewhat annoying that right next to it is same size white wire for headlights, so you have to be extra sure to get the right wire, dumb).
It's slightly different from the circuit on my '04 Sierra, which had a loop (bcm to ambient light sensor, back to bcm, break the circuit w a switch to fake the sensor into thinking it's bright out). This circuit is bcm to als, to ground, so the bcm provides both power, and measures current in the circuit.
From testing, neither an open circuit, nor shorting the pin to ground works, most likely the bcm notices and ignore the input, thinking the circuit has a problem. I'll need to find a discrete resistor of about 400 ohms, 1/2W, with a SPDT switch to either connect the sensor or the resistor (connected to ground) to the bcm pin.
Finally, way back when I first got this truck, I stripped out some wiring the PO had put in for some equipment they had pulled out of the truck, and while doing this, I found a blunt-cut brown wire going in a harness under the dash. While doing this work today, I noticed there are several more blunt cut wires there, also going into the harness, so it looks OEM. From googling and watching an etrailer video on installing a brake controller, apparently those wires (including the brown one) are for hooking up a 3rd party trailer brake controller (which is nice, as I can tuck that brown wire up with the other ones, knowing it's not supposed to be connected up to something).