I made a diverter type 3rd function for my Kubota, the valve I used is no longer available from Surplus Center but there are other diverter valves out there. I have less than $300 in my setup. You can use a seperate valve for grapple but it will require either a second hand or having to take your hand off the loader valve which can be annoying when trying to grab a load.
The other option is to use a electric double acting valve like this one http://www.mytractorforum.com/showthread.php?t=179289 + https://www.surpluscenter.com/item.asp?catname=hydraulic&item=9-5883-1 .
You can either make a control knob to mount on the loader joystick or buy one, however buying one is not cheap.
Since you already have a power beyond kit for the backhoe it should be fairly easy to add a plumb the hyd. as you should be able to tie it into the existing lines with leaving them hooked up to the BH.
If you decide to go the self buit route there are plenty of people on here to help you figure out the hookup as long as you have some basic mechanical knowledge which it sounds like you do.
Brad
The other option is to use a electric double acting valve like this one http://www.mytractorforum.com/showthread.php?t=179289 + https://www.surpluscenter.com/item.asp?catname=hydraulic&item=9-5883-1 .
You can either make a control knob to mount on the loader joystick or buy one, however buying one is not cheap.
Since you already have a power beyond kit for the backhoe it should be fairly easy to add a plumb the hyd. as you should be able to tie it into the existing lines with leaving them hooked up to the BH.
If you decide to go the self buit route there are plenty of people on here to help you figure out the hookup as long as you have some basic mechanical knowledge which it sounds like you do.
Brad