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simple_john
04-25-2009, 08:54 AM
It happened so fast, 7 short weeks, my boy went from being a strong, happy, muscular goofball to being gone…
Blu was born in july 1, 2004, and only lived 4 short years…. What a beautiful boy, show quality except way too goofy and too much of a chicken to ever be shown. He had a droopy eye, a crooked nose, a tooth that always stuck out, and a tongue that seemed about an inch too long.. but all that just added character. He was strong, proud and ran around our yard like he was king… no one could get near the house without blu sounding like a killer.. in effect, he was just a big chicken, the term his bark was worse than his bite fit him perfectly… Ive had dogs before, and all have been great, but all bluzy really ever wanted, was to please us… any time he thought he was doing something wrong, he’d just stop in place and sit up so proud, and look at us as if to say, ima sitting pretty, ima good boy… He loved to swim and was fearless out in the boat, no matter the weather or the conditions, he loved being on the water… He was such a sweet pup…
Around the 1st week of march we noticed him peeing more frequently… we thought it was just a UTI, but after tons of tests, we found out it was cancer. On 4/7 we put him on steroids, in hope of getting a ‘few months’ of quality life for my boy… The steroids did wonderful, but were like cheating death… in the backs of our minds – and probably blu’s, we knew he was not well. The poor boy, had to pee so much, and so often and for so long, we wondered if his kidneys could hold out…
I don’t really know what happened, he was doing a lot better – even if it was only a temporary thing, we welcomed the extra time… it was just not enough… Bluzy got 2 ½ weeks of feeling better, the steroids messed with him, but overall he was happier and felt a lot better, got to enjoy the spring sun, the yard, and of course his tether ball..
On Wednesday night, 4/22 I noticed –and this might sound strange- but his fur really pulled inward, it was like he lost ¼ of his fur, it was pulled in tight… I checked his lymph nodes all the time and they were still getting bigger, so we knew, the steroids were just buying us some time. Thursday he was ok, but I could tell he did not feel well. On Friday, he was clearly not feeling well, he could barely get out of bed, he drank but couldn’t touch his food. I gave him meds to help his stomach feel better, but I knew, he was not well. He lied on my bed all day, quivering, barely able to get up…
By evening, he felt real bad, his back legs were weak, he fell off of the front steps and was really having a hard time just standing up. Instinctively, he would not sit, and just kept wobbling, his little nub pulled so far down, he felt bad.. We knew It was time… Our vet came over around 8:30 and my boy, who could not even get out of bed still lifted his head and let out one of his guttural growls that gave the vet pause – he’d never seen blu in the house, in his house, blu was king, and he let anyone who came near know that..
He went so peacefully, in a matter of seconds, he was at rest, and no longer in pain, still as pretty as ever with all the flash, just at rest…
I never really had a chance to prepare a place to bury him. I found a nursery who had a blue spruce tree leftover from last year – it was not the prettiest tree id ever seen, kind of crooked and lanky looking, but it sorta matched blu, and since the new ones would not be around till the end of May,we didn’t have time to wait.. I got the tree planted last week, Its facing his the tether ball – blus favorite toy of all time I dug his grave this morning, and today, will say goodbye to my pretty pretty boy… Godspeed bluzy Godspeed….

Ingersoll444
04-25-2009, 09:00 AM
Oh man John............... Im very sorry :(

Brad
04-25-2009, 09:00 AM
So very sorry for the loss of your good pet and friend. Our sympathy to you and the rest of Blu's family.

Brad and Linda.

Team_Green
04-25-2009, 09:05 AM
So sorry to see this happen SJ.

Artpb
04-25-2009, 09:10 AM
A tough day John, It's apparent he touched your soul as you touched his.

Blue spruce, nice touch to honor his time with you.

Bolensbill
04-25-2009, 09:12 AM
So sorry to hear of the loss of your pet and best friend. I can see that you have some wonderful memories that you'll keep forever. May Blu rest in peace.

oldtimer
04-25-2009, 09:13 AM
SJ, that is one of the saddest moments we have to put up with. Knowing that you did everything you could to make his last days comfortable is something to remember. You've already remembered the good times. Blu's out of his misery and you have those memories. It's not easy, I know. Been there with several pets over the years.
God bless.

Ken N Tx
04-25-2009, 09:19 AM
Sorry for your loss John...R.I.P. Blu..

dj2cohen
04-25-2009, 09:25 AM
John, I don't have words. I have lost a couple of Springers that were very dear to me. I can empathize, but don't have the words.

jeepersmitty
04-25-2009, 09:26 AM
It is such a terrible thing to see your beloved pet slowly going before your eyes and there is nothing else you can do about it. You keep hoping for a miracle that never happens. I went through the same thing a year ago with my friend. He went in such a short time it was unbelievable. I feel for you my friend. Anyone who loves animals with your compassion has to be a fine man.

3BO
04-25-2009, 09:27 AM
I am so very sorry John. He was such a proud big boy and all of your pictures showed that. Your tribute to him was perfect.

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glenn27
04-25-2009, 09:35 AM
Sorry for the loss--SJ...
That tribute touches many of us that love animals.....Nice touch with the tree...

MowHoward2210
04-25-2009, 10:09 AM
I am so sorry, John. Your post brought tears to my eyes. He was a very special friend to you, and I know he and Cass are looking down on you -- their special friend and master.

olcowhand
04-25-2009, 10:25 AM
So sorry John. Had to do same a couple years ago to my little dog "Nubby". I held her while the Vet did what needed done. She died in my arms. I cried like a baby after I got away from Kevin, my vet. I do know how you feel.

jodyand
04-25-2009, 10:50 AM
Sorry to hear that John. I know how hard it is to watch a family member pass away over time.

mark777
04-25-2009, 11:10 AM
Oh god John, I can't say anithing that hasn't been said already....Very sorry about your friend.

R.I.P. Blu.

drbailey
04-25-2009, 01:13 PM
John, Im sorry to hear of your loss, the passing of Blu.
Its a hard thing that your going threw but you both did each other proud.
Very nice tribute, a very nice heart felt good bye to a close friend.

firefighter5143
04-25-2009, 01:24 PM
Sorry for your loss. Remember the sun will always come up tomorrow. And like you said Blu just wants you and your family to be happy.

I have a black lab (Tugger) who I would describe the same as you did Blu. Again sorry for your loss.

Frank865
04-25-2009, 01:24 PM
I don't have words to express myself...
I have lost a few Boxers before, so have a some idea of your loss.
I'm so sorry..... I just don't have any words.
Time will help ease the pain, Blu will always be with you.

Glad2bHere
04-25-2009, 01:38 PM
Aww John that just stinks. I know if Blue could have picked a short happy life with you over a long life elsewhere, well we know what he chose.

BOSOX
04-25-2009, 01:51 PM
Sorry for your loss John. Take care..

JD2030
04-25-2009, 02:17 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss.

Michael
04-25-2009, 03:53 PM
John I am sorry about your loss as I went through that with our Nickie, a sarcoma cancer took him at a way to early time.

At least Blu had a happy life and I think you will always remember Blu and his boat rides.

Durwood
04-25-2009, 04:08 PM
So sorry about your loss SJ. It truly is like losing your best friend. At least you know he is not suffering anymore. R.I.P. Blue....

Dur

Rodster
04-25-2009, 04:54 PM
Sorry for your loss
Rod

HydroHarold
04-25-2009, 06:54 PM
My wife and I send you our deepest sympathies! We both had boxers before we got married and your discription of Blu's attitude and looks fit my Bucky to a "T" (especially your past pictures of the jowel over the tooth trick!). I still miss him after so many years. I remember the pictures of Blu when you covered him up in the boat to keep the sun off as he napped. Damn... pets go away so quickly...

woodsy
04-25-2009, 06:57 PM
We have a cute little girl named Dede that we rescued - she's 1/2 Jack Russell and 1/2 Wire Hair Terrier. We (my son, daughter, wife & I) love her very much. I'm so sorry for your loss. These little guys & gals really do become a family member.

D-Dogg
04-25-2009, 07:00 PM
Sorry to hear about your loss.

Northof49
04-25-2009, 07:46 PM
Sorry for your loss. Some dogs just connect with their family and when they go the home feels empty. Try to think of how much better off you were for knowing him.

Edward
04-25-2009, 08:14 PM
sorry to hear of that sj. I enjoyed the pics you posted of him, sorry for the loss of your buddy

Jim_WV
04-25-2009, 08:36 PM
I'm so sorry John, knew you had a special kindred spirit with ole Blu, could tell that from the way you talked about him, the pictures and the kidding around with him. May the Lord of all things on this earth give you comfort in your heart to know that you gave this loving pet all the nurturing and love a man could possibly share.

NEWT92
04-25-2009, 08:41 PM
Sorry to hear this news SJ. They do become part of the family.

illinilefttackle
04-25-2009, 09:23 PM
I've got tears in my eyes-SJ. To me-pets are the Lite of our lives. Their love comes to us with no strings attached. You can come home from a hard days work, be greeted by the wagging tail, happy noises, and you feel lifted in spirit.
Your Boy has gone to a better place-no pain-no worries-just endless sunshine and time to play. I truly believe we will be re-united with our loved ones AND our pets we it comes time for us to go too. Best of Luck! -AL

Greenster
04-25-2009, 09:26 PM
I'm very sorry to hear that SJ. You have been through a lot in the last few weeks. Like you said, he's no longer in pain and that's what is really important. The fact that animals don't understand death makes our dealing with it that much harder. God bless.

Regards,

Kbeitz
04-25-2009, 09:58 PM
My best friend closed his eyes last night, As his head was in my hand. The Doctors said he was in pain, And it was hard for him to stand. The thoughts that scurried through my head, As I cradled him in my arms. Were of his younger, puppy years, And Oh...his many charms. Today, there was no gentle nudge With an intense "I love you gaze", Only a heart that's filled with tears Remembering our joy filled days. But an Angel just appeared to me, And he said, "You should cry no more, GOD also loves our canine friends, HE's installed a 'doggy door'!!!