Very sad day today

[cadman56]

My wife and I put down our 13 year old Golden Retriever, Jordan, today. due to bone cancer. He was the best dog we ever had. He just loved being around people. I feel awful right now. I miss he sorely. Needless to say, there hasn't been a dry eye in this house since 3pm this afternoon. I thought a couple of shots and a few beers would help, but it hasn't, the tears keep flowing. We had Jordan cremated, so in a couple of weeks we will get his ashes in a wooden box. I think I'll keep the box in the family room because Jordan always like to be there with everyone. That way he will be with us forever. I can't see to type anymore. Thanks for reading this.

[Mark / Ohio]

Sorry for your loss Cadman.

That is always an extremely difficult thing to do even knowing your best friend is no longer suffering.

[rjzatyko@yahoo.com]

hi,i am sorry for your loss,our family also has had to put several loved pets down and the tears flowed hard for a long time so i know what you and your family are going thru,the only advice that i can give you is when you are done mourning your loss is to think of the good times that you have had with your loved pet and to me they are family.richard from ky

[simple_john]

cadman, im very sorry to hear about your jordan... 13 years is a long and good life for a dog.. but its never ever, long enough...

sorry....

[MaineDad]

Sorry about your loss. Keep thinking about the good times and time will heal. Great idea about the family room.

[MowHoward2210]

My condolences for your loss. As someone stated before, they are never around long enough.

[Rippers Customs]

Would like to say sorry for your loss Cadman56
From our home to yours. Heartfelt sorrows--- Excellent idea with the Memory box. We did the same thing Cremated and returned in a really nice handcarved box and a little poem on top... if I may read it to you now...
this is for you and all of those who have had any experience in life...
unknown author--- wife found it. So if there is any mistakes in my typing sorry but this was manually typed by me while reading the poem.

I'm still here.

Please don't mourn for me, I'm still here, though you don't see.
I'm right by your side each night and day,and withen your heart i long to stay.
My body is gong,but Im always near. I'm everything you feel,see or hear.
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart, as long as you keep me alive in your heart.
I'll never wander out of your site, I'm the brightest star on a summer night.
I'll never be beyond your reach, I'm the warm moist sandwhen your at the beach.
I'm the colorful leaves, when fall comes around,and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I'm the beautiful flowers of which you're so fond, the clear cool water in a quiet pond.
I'm the first bright bloom you'll see in the spring,the first warm rain drop that April will bring.
I'm the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine, and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.
When you start thinking there's no one to love you, you can talk to me though the lord above you.
I'll whisper my answer though the leaves on the trees, and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep, and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I'm the smile you see on a baby's face. Just look at me, I'm everyplace.
IN LOVING MEMORY OF DANTE
Sept. 12, 2005

So you see we are all in this together...
There are brighter days ahead for us all...

[Argee]

Sorry for your loss Cadman....it's never easy loosing a devoted friend.

[Matt N TX]

Cadman...It's the hardest and kindest thing to do. Just remember that you are suffering now so that Jordon would not have to. Thank you for caring for your beloved pet so much.

Matt

[Rodster]

I am sorry to hear of your loss
Rod

[Kbeitz]

My best friend closed his eyes last night, As his head was in my hand. The Doctors said he was in pain, And it was hard for him to stand. The thoughts that scurried through my head, As I cradled him in my arms. Were of his younger, puppy years, And Oh...his many charms. Today, there was no gentle nudge With an intense "I love you gaze", Only a heart that's filled with tears Remembering our joy filled days. But an Angel just appeared to me, And he said, "You should cry no more, GOD also loves our canine friends, HE's installed a 'doggy door'!!!

[John Deere Addict]

So sorry to hear that. Our pets are definately a part of the family and it is always sad to lose them. Seems funny how we get attatched to a dog, they give unconditional love and all they ask in return is a pet on the head and a kind word.

I'm gonna give my lab a extra big hug this morning and be thankful I still can.

Always remember the good times and the loving home you gave.

[Jim_WV]

I'm so sorry to hear cadman, loosing one's best friend and companion of the family is never ever easy.

[mark777]

Cadman,

For me to say I know what you're going through is no help at all. I DO understand the loss of a good friend, family member and wonderful pet companion.

I'm sorry for your loss.

[danbike]

My wife and I are active in a dog rescue group. One thing I have learned about is the concept of the Rainbow Bridge. Go do a search and see if you don't agree.

AT THE END OF THE RAINBOW BRIDGE
When I woke this morning I felt very odd
I don't know why but I felt close to God
The sun was shining, the birds were singing
The music was soft, the bells were ringing
And puppies were romping at play
What a pleasant start to a wonderful day
I remember lying down to take a nap
I remember I had my head in her lap
I remember the sad look in her eye
I remember I had never seen her cry
I remember I wanted to ask her why
I remember hearing her say "Good Bye"
I wanted to say don't cry for me
I wanted to say just remember me
I wanted to say I remember the toys
I wanted to say I remember the joys
I wanted to say I remember your touch
I wanted to say I loved you so much
I wanted to say what an angel you've been
For showing me the way to him
When I woke up I knew there would be no pain
When I woke up I knew I could play in the rain
You've taken care of me all my life
You've guarded me from trouble and strife
You've been with me through good and bad
You've always stopped me from being sad
You've given me treats and given me care
You told me what to expect when I got there
So please don't cry wipe the tears from your eye
I'll look down upon you with a woof and a sigh
I'll gather my courage and march up to God
I'll ask him when you get there to give you a nod
For you were my master you were my friend
And I'll be waiting for you at the rainbows end.
~ Dr. Kal Kalnasy ~

[danbike]

http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm

[USN_ED]

Terrible, just terrible. So sorry to hear about Jordan. It's just amazing how attached we are to our pets.

[Astronomer]

I'm sorry about Jordan. It's true: good dogs never live long enough.

[lt230s]

Our condolences go out to you and your family, Cadman. Remember all the good times and smiles he brought to you.

[gravely_hillbilly]

condolences to you and your family. having gone through the same thing 3 weeks ago,i can tell you it will get better,but will never be the same.

[Hutch001b]

Sorry for your loss Cadman. Keep the good times in mind.

[Dad0850]

Sorry to hear of the loss of your friend, Cadman. I know what you are feeling. We lost our dearest canine friend of 13 years, about a year ago. He was Golden Retriever and Collie mix. He died of lung cancer. We also had a Cocker Spaniel, which we had put down because of bone cancer. It has been about 11 months since we lost Max and I find myself calling our new friend Luke, whom we've had about 9 months, Max. I'm sure that you have many, many memories of wonderful times with Jordan. Keep those memories in mind and share them with anyone who'll listen.

[GRP]

I feel realy sad about your loss. I know the pain. I've had to put down a couple best friends. The only cure is to get a new pup. You'll never forget your old friend, but, you can have a new one. Life without a dog would be rough.

[Rocko]

Sorry for your loss.

[cadman56]

Thank you everyone for your kind words, poems and info on Rainbowsbridge. After reading through all the posts I'm feeling better now. What a great group we have here! I feel very fortunate that I found this site. I'm very tired right now. I didn't get hardly any sleep last night. Thanks again, good-night and God bless.

[SAMSRAM]

Cadman, we're so sorry to hear about Jordan. You're right -- the tractor forum group are great. When our little Tattoo crossed over the Rainbow Bridge the kind thoughts helped a lot. Besides the Rainbow Bridge someone posted this:

Dear Master,
You have been my teacher, my friend and most beloved companion. I was like your child, totally dependent on you for all my needs. But I never grew up and moved away as children do, I just grew to love and need you more each day, each month, each year.
I never went hungry because you gave me dinner and gave me water each day. When the weather was bad I found comfort in the warmth and safety of your home. I delighted you by learning tricks, but what you may not have realized is that I loved learning from you because I lived to please you.
The touch of your hand stroking my fur made my life worthwhile. Though I barked at noises in the night, the postman's footsteps and the ringing of the doorbell; the voice of my master was the one sound that I cherished most. Your moods became my moods. When you were sad or lonely, I nuzzled closer to comfort you .
There were times when you became upset with me because I soiled the carpet, chewed on a piece of furniture, or barked too much. But do not feel bad about those times when you scolded me - I needed to learn right from wrong, and I always understood when things weren't going your way or when you'd had an unpleasant day at work. There is no need for you to harbor guilt or remorse on my behalf.
You loved me and blessed me with more happiness than most animals will ever know. Instead of wondering what you could have done differently, remember the funny things I did and the happy times we shared together. Though it is hard for you to understand, I was ready to pass on from this life.
Our time together was short, but if we'd had fifty years together, you still would have not been ready for me to leave.
So please, Master, share your life with others. Do not refuse the opportunity to give another lucky pet the love you have given me. No other animal will ever take my place in your heart, but there is another one who needs you and will grow to love you as much as I did.
I am now at peace and no longer feel pain. You gave me a wonderful home and a happy existence on this earth. So please be happy - go on with your life and give your love to others.
Although I no longer share your world, I will always live in your heart, and you in mine.
Farewell, Dear Master

Reading both of them and the kind words from everyone made our tears flow harder but they were healing tears. You'll never forget him.
Take care. Sam & Jeannie Brittell